Today, I had the thought If only I could read into the future. It’s crossed my mind a couple of times but only in a certain way about paying closer attention to you, reading in between the lines as the expression goes, so that I could be perfect which I know you know is unrealistic. I have to believe you know we both have had life changes that simply had to unfold a certain way. While maybe no one was right and no one was wrong as you said, I don’t believe it justified a written ultimatum of we must decide or go our separate paths and you did not deserve my overreaching fear expressed in uncivil manners. We could have and still should work through bad habits (me) and old messages (you) to be better together, juntos. We are a Special Pair. I already was growing up, becoming a better person.
Take that number and multiply it and that is the number of days I want to spend with You, Mi Alma.
Have You completely forgotten Me? Do I need to find a way Home, to a new Home ? A Home where I must accept You won’t be waiting ?
Gemini’s gift of lightening things up [would love to help] the lost child in [this] Crab see from outside themselves — and even laugh at their own infant terrible moments. Cancer [has shown this ] Gemini that it’s okay to feel deeply, and be vulnerable. A good sign of enduring love here is if the sound of laughter follows them wherever they go. With love, and some evolution, this union becomes like a seabird — there’s high flying punctuated by plunges into oceanic depths. The key is learning to be gentle with the other when they’re not “in their element.” [which can and has happened with rapid learning!!]
She’s known to be touchy, and if offended or hurt, she can turn to stone. She might be smiling, but the light is gone from her eyes. That doesn’t mean you’re out for good. But she might need time alone, to be with her own private feelings. If you get the cold shoulder, give her some space and see if she comes ’round.
The Gemini guy’s turn off is a closed, rigid mind. He changes his own mind a lot, which makes him seem sketchy. But it’s the nature of Gemini to sift and sort, and rearrange the picture. To share a rapport with him, you’ll need to be a free thinker, willing to see things from many angles. This is crucial for a love connection, since he’ll want to share a running commentary that spills out unedited, and is always changing.
Common ground is the world of the imagination, enchantment, wonder, curiosity and learning about this infinitely changeable world. The glue for this relationship is the experience of life itself, if both put the focus on that adventure. The days are never boring, since moods and thoughts change in an instant, and there’s always more to learn, know, experience.